girl… self sabotage is not just a bad habit. it is literally the matrix feeding on your energy. every time you avoid your purpose, delay your posting, hide your gifts, ghost your audience, or freeze right before your breakthrough, the matrix collects points like it’s a video game. and you lose yours. this blog is about unplugging from that loop so you can finally rise into your soft ceo timeline. 🦋🌸



🧨 self sabotage is how the matrix wins

the matrix survives on your hesitation.
 on your “i’ll do it tomorrow”.
 on your “i’m not ready yet”.
 on your “what if i look stupid”.
 every time you pause your purpose, your power leaks into a system that was designed to keep women small, broke, and discouraged.

the gag is… you’re not weak. you’re not unmotivated. your nervous system just hasn’t learned yet that success is safe.

🦋 how the matrix steals your points

the matrix gets stronger when you:

• rewrite your offer 18 times

• overthink instead of post

• let fear of judgement silence you

• hide your spiritual gifts

• forget who tf you are

this is not personality. this is programming.
 and programming can be rewritten.

💗 reclaiming your points through aligned action

you get your points back every time you take even the smallest aligned step.
 posting one thing
 selling one thing
 choosing yourself one more time
 regulating your nervous system
 breathing before spiraling

every micro action sends the matrix a message:
 “i don’t serve you anymore. i serve my destiny.”

🌙 unplugging from sabotage and rising into soft ceo energy

when your body feels safe being seen, everything shifts.
 your consistency returns.
 your confidence rebuilds.
 your creativity wakes up.
 your soul clients find you.
 this is why EMPIRE blends nervous system work with business coaching. your energy has to rise before your business rises.

✨ you stop sabotaging the moment you remember who you are

you came here to lead
 to create
 to express
 to shift timelines
 to serve from your magic
 to be paid for your gifts

the matrix wants you to forget that.
 but your higher self is louder.

self sabotage only wins when you forget your power. when you choose alignment, softness, intention, and identity work, your whole timeline upgrades. your points return. your power comes back. the matrix loses. and you rise. 💖


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